“Heal First, Attract Better: Becoming the Version of You That Calls in the Love You Deserve”
Because love doesn’t have to hurt, chase, or shrink you.
You don’t attract what you want—you attract what you believe you’re worthy of.
Let that sink in.
If you believe love is inconsistent, you’ll tolerate hot-and-cold partners.
If you believe you have to earn love, you’ll keep overgiving to people who underdeliver.
But when you believe you are enough—exactly as you are—you stop chasing love… and start attracting it.
The Energy You Bring In Is the Energy You Put Out
Your self-worth sets the tone for every relationship in your life.
Healing your inner wounds isn’t just self-care—it’s relationship preparation.
Because once you’ve unpacked the pain, learned the patterns, and reclaimed your power…
You stop settling for crumbs when you know you deserve the whole table.
Attracting the Love You Deserve Starts With You
Here’s what it looks like when you’re aligned and attracting from a place of wholeness:
1. You’re clear on your standards—not just your type
You don’t just want someone tall, kind, or ambitious—you want someone emotionally available, consistent, and safe.
2. You no longer confuse intensity with intimacy
You’ve healed enough to know that butterflies aren’t always chemistry—sometimes they’re your nervous system remembering chaos.
3. You communicate what you need instead of hoping they’ll “just know”
You speak from self-respect, not fear of abandonment.
4. You walk away from what doesn’t align—without drama
Your peace matters more than temporary attention.
5. You hold space for real love because you’ve cleared out the weight of old wounds
You’re not just attracting a person—you’re attracting a partnership that aligns with your healed self.
Therapy Helps You Become Magnetic to What You Deserve
At The Couples Therapy and Reunification Counseling, we help you:
Heal the inner child who didn’t feel chosen
Break free from relationship patterns that no longer serve you
Set healthy boundaries rooted in self-worth
Build self-trust, confidence, and emotional maturity
Create a new love blueprint based on security, not survival
Montebello & Newport Beach — Where Healing Becomes Magnetic
You don’t have to beg for love, decode mixed signals, or question your value.
Your job isn’t to convince someone to choose you.
Your job is to choose yourself so completely that only those who truly see you can stay.
📞 (562) 774-6787
🌐 thecouplestherapy.com
📲 @couplesandreunificationtherapy