Discernment Counseling for Couples Who Are Not Sure

If one of you is unsure about staying together and the other wants to keep trying, discernment counseling can help.

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This is a short term service that helps you slow down, get clear, and decide what to do next.

What is discernment counseling?

Discernment counseling is a guided conversation for couples who feel stuck. It is not about fixing everything right away. It is about helping you understand what is happening and choose your next step with more peace and less pressure.

Who this is for?

This is a good fit,

if


One of you is thinking about separation or divorce
You feel disconnected and keep having the same fights
One of you wants therapy and the other is unsure
You do not want to make a rushed decision

How it works?

Most couples meet for one to five sessions.

What do we do in each session?


Meet together for part of the time
Meet with each partner one on one during the same appointment
Create clear next steps

This structure helps reduce arguing and helps you both feel heard.

What you will decide?


By the end, most couples choose one of these options
Stay the same for now, with a clear plan
Separate or divorce in a calmer, more respectful way
Commit to couples therapy with clear goals

What you can expect?


A calm and neutral therapist
A safe space to talk without pushing an outcome
Help understanding your patterns and what led you here
Support making a decision you can feel confident about

Schedule a Discernment Consultation

You do not have to decide today. If your relationship is at a turning point, we can help you get clear on what comes next.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • It is different. Couples therapy focuses on fixing the relationship. Discernment counseling helps you decide if you want to try couples therapy or move in a different direction.

  • No. We will not push you. We help you make a clear decision.

  • You can reach us anytime via our contact page, by scheduling a consultation, calling or texting us or even an email. We aim to respond quickly—usually within one business day.

  • Getting started is simple. Reach out through our contact form or schedule a call—we’ll walk you through the next steps and answer any questions along the way.

  • Usually one to five sessions.

  • Yes. This works best when both partners attend.

If there is violence, intimidation, or you feel unsafe, this service may not be the right fit. We will help you find safer support.

What began as a passion project has evolved into something more. We’re proud of where we’ve been and even more excited for what’s ahead.

What sets us apart isn’t just our process—it’s the intention behind it. We take time to understand, explore, and create with purpose at every turn.

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